Archive for November, 2008

Why Kill Someone You Love?!

Tuesday, November 25th, 2008

Last night the demented young man who shot his estranged wife and two other people while in church was arrested in Georgia last night. I am wondering what could have prompted him to commit such a heinous act? What did he hope to accomplish by ending his wife’s life and killing another young man who was just trying to help? He should  know that his life was over as becausehe would be caught and tried and possibly excecuted (depending on state law).

To me, he is spineless for commiting this brutal selfish act. If you are so tough stay and face the police and suffer the consequences of your actions. You mean to tell me that he “loved” her so much that he couldn’t bare to see her live her life without him? I think not! This was a purely selfish act that was just based completely on objectifying his wife and having complete control over her life.

I have seen many relationships where the people involved treat each other like unfeeling possessions. Human beings are not like a car or an ipod, or a pair of shoes that you can just do whatever you want to them. I believe that if you can’t get along with someone then leave them alone. Of course it hurts a lot when relationships turn sour and we don’t want to admit that it is over. We want to hang on and see if we can revive the passion and the love that we first felt when we met. Unfortunately, both people have to want to work things out in order for the relationship to have any chance of success.

It is reported that the man’s wife had fled across the country from the relationship because it was abusive but this guy followed her because he just couldn’t let it go. I guess he must have thought he was showing her “love” by beating the hell out of her on a regular basis. I wonder how he would feel if someone was kicking his tail everyday how he would like it? I think that he would look to get out of that situation as fast as possible and thats what his wife did.

So now he decides that she can’t do this to him. He follows her to her place of worship goes inside and guns her down along with two other church members then he flees like the coward that he is.  His ultimate expression of his “love” for her was to senselessly murder her.

His actions left he stunned I’m wondering - Why kill someone you love?! How can you begin to justify committing such a horrible crime? The answer is simple you can’t! If you really love someone and they no longer want to be involved with you you have to let her go. You have no right to determine whether she lives or dies because she no longer wants to put up with your garbage!

We all know that love is the one emotion that can be wonderfully invigorating or terribly hurtful depending on the relationship. As hard as it is we have to keep love in perspective - many people have this misconception that love means ownership of the other person. We all must realize that when the love is gone we have to accept it and move on when it doesn’t work.

If you really love someone killing them should never enter your mind ever. This wasn’t about love for this man this was about control. I hope that the judge throws the book at him and gives him the appropriate 200 year life sentence because he doesn’t love he just kills.

Finally - “Change Has Come To America”!

Wednesday, November 5th, 2008

Last night I witnessed an event that I had thought would never happen in my lifetime! I knew it would happen eventually but I was certain I wouldn’t be around to see it. Last night the America people made a bold statement and overwhelmingly chose Barack Obama to be the 44th President of The United States. Clearly his message of hope and inclusion inspired and galvanized the American public.

We were ready for a change and together we spoke with vigor against the status quo. I am prideful yet humbled to be blessed to be alive to see this historic event. It has made me even more determined to clear a path for my children. I will not be able to become President but now my son and daughter will have a fair shot at the job should they choose to pursue that goal.

Although we each have our individual pursuits we knew a change needed to be made, we knew we could not endure four more years of the last eight years! We spoke loudly and we spoke clearly - We don’t want the same old Washington partisanship, we don’t want  these protracted wars continued, we don’t want to be fearful about the economy, we don’t want to be afraid of losing our homes, we don’t want to have unaffordable health care, we don’t want to be scared of anyone who doesn’t share our skin color and we don’t want our children to be denied proper education! So we mobilized in vast numbers, we went out to our polling stations, we voted in unison, we said we needed a change and our collective voices were heard.

This not just a change for African-Americans, this is not just a change for our political establishment, this is a change for the world. We need to show the world that we are a civilized nation that is evolving and overcoming our racial prejudices. Last night I believe we elected the best man for the job and now we all have to put on our hard hats and get to work restoring this country to prominence.

Once again, Obama’s speech set the right tone, we should recognize that this was a once in a lifetime moment that we all shared. He reached across party lines, racial lines and cultural lines and offered a message of hope. His enthusiam was rightly tempered because this is no time to bask in victory, this is time to get the job done. Like he said he can’t do it alone we have to stand with him as a nation and we will get there together.

As President - Elect Obama stated ”this is a defining moment” and “change has come to America“. We must continue to forge ahead in this new direction and follow our words with actions. If we want change to stay in America we all have to be prepared to put our old ways aside and look toward the greater good. We all must realize that this is the UNITED STATES of AMERICA and we must now show the world that our actions are synonymous with our name.

Can You Feel It?! Change Is In The Air! - Elect Barack Obama Today!

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

Well, I got up early to go and vote today after tossing and turning in anticipation for what seemed like countless hours.  I took my son with me, although he is not old enough to vote, because I wanted him to witness the democratic process in action. This is an historic Presidential campaign, we are either going to have the oldest first term President and first female VP, or we will witness the first African-American President in US history. I can’t see anyone not being enthusiastic about exercising his or her right to vote today.

I believe Barack Obama has what it takes to move this country out of the dark cloud of economic dismay, racial polarization and Washington partisanship! I voted for Obama not because he was an African-American but because I believe he cares about the people in this country and truly wants to make a positive difference in our lives. Obviously, if elected, he would have a daunting task ahead, people should not consider him a savior but someone who will eventually will lead us out of the abyss if he is given a fair shot.

If we stand with him as a nation we cannot be torn asunder! There will be those of the old guard who will do their utmost to undermine him, but I believe that he will stand firm in his convictions and do the best he can for the people. It’s time for us to turn this page in American (world) history and vote for change. These rare opportunities only come around once in a lifetime (maybe). We have to seize the moment NOW!

Barack Obama won’t just be the President for African-Americans, he will be President for all the citizens of all the races, all the religions, all the cultures, all the parties and all the income brackets.  This is not a black America or a white America, neither is it a red or blue America this is the United States of America and it’s about time we live up to our name!

Let’s Change The World - Elect Barack Obama!

Lets Stand By Him! Together We Can Change The World! Vote For Barack Obama! - He’s The Only Sensible Choice!

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

I’m just about to hurry out and cast my vote andI will be voting for Barack Obama!

I feel Obama is the right man for the job. When he first came onto the scene I wasn’t so sure about him, but after watching him for months it is clear to me that he can restore our country to prominence. We need someone who can galvanize all cultures and races so that we all can get through these tough economic times.

John McCain has generally run a divisive campaign and he is out of touch with what we need right now. We need to get the economy back on track, we need to end that senseless war in Iraq and we need to regain confidence in our leaders. John McCain’s policies won’t be much different that George Bush’s and we all know how those policies (or lack thereof) turned out!

So folks lets make history and elect the candidate that will do the right thing and that man is Barack Obama! It’s going to be difficult but he knows how to bring people together and he knows what we need. John McCain is one of the old guard (in his case literally) and it’s time to change the driver and get fresh eyes and new energy at the wheel. John McCain holds the promise of the past, but Barack Obama holds the promise of the future.

As George Santayana once said “Those who cannot remember the past are doomed to repeat it”. We can ill afford to continue the mistakes of the past 8 years but voting for John McCain.

Vote for Barack Obama - He’s The Only Sensible Choice!

Hate Has No Place In America! - Or ANYWHERE else!

Sunday, November 2nd, 2008

Last week the FBI arrested two very misguided young white men who call themselves White Supremacists. Apparently, for some reason they came up with a plan so that they could assasinate Presidential candidate Barack Obama and create a blood bath by murdering 88 African-Americans.

What could possibly possess them to think that this would be a good idea?! In these trying times instead of these young men making their selves useful by seeking gainful employment they are out plotting to kill black people. I don’t know who their parents (relatives) are but they should be ashamed of themselves for teaching them this garbage! HATE is generally a learned response. Babies are not born hateful but they learn quickly from those around them. This is the 21st century it is time for all of us to put our simple prejudices aside for the greater good. I know this would be nearly impossible but we can a least try.

If people would take off the blinders and look past his color, Barack Obama is obviously a brilliant man! There is no race factor involved in briliance you are either brilliant or you are not. If he becomes President he should be given a fair opportunity to succeed because George Bush has left us in a predicament of historic proportions. It will take great effort for whoever becomes President to reverse the damage that has been done over the past 8 years. In this harsh economic climate things are going to be tough for every race of every color for sometime to come, therefore unity will be a key factor in how fast this country moves forward.

When does another race have the right to proclaim itself better than any other? Last I checked if any human being gets cut red blood comes of his or her veins out not matter what the skin color. Last I observed we all need air to breath no matter what the skin color. Last I have seen we ALL die no matter what the skin color! So who in their right mind could think they are better than anyone else? T

he bottom line is HATE HAS NO PLACE IN AMERICA or anywhere else for that matter! It’s up to all of us to become more aware of ourselves and stop this madness because eventually we will all destroy each other! I wonder who will be superior then?!