Last night I witnessed an event that I had thought would never happen in my lifetime! I knew it would happen eventually but I was certain I wouldn’t be around to see it. Last night the America people made a bold statement and overwhelmingly chose Barack Obama to be the 44th President of The United States. Clearly his message of hope and inclusion inspired and galvanized the American public.
We were ready for a change and together we spoke with vigor against the status quo. I am prideful yet humbled to be blessed to be alive to see this historic event. It has made me even more determined to clear a path for my children. I will not be able to become President but now my son and daughter will have a fair shot at the job should they choose to pursue that goal.
Although we each have our individual pursuits we knew a change needed to be made, we knew we could not endure four more years of the last eight years! We spoke loudly and we spoke clearly - We don’t want the same old Washington partisanship, we don’t want these protracted wars continued, we don’t want to be fearful about the economy, we don’t want to be afraid of losing our homes, we don’t want to have unaffordable health care, we don’t want to be scared of anyone who doesn’t share our skin color and we don’t want our children to be denied proper education! So we mobilized in vast numbers, we went out to our polling stations, we voted in unison, we said we needed a change and our collective voices were heard.
This not just a change for African-Americans, this is not just a change for our political establishment, this is a change for the world. We need to show the world that we are a civilized nation that is evolving and overcoming our racial prejudices. Last night I believe we elected the best man for the job and now we all have to put on our hard hats and get to work restoring this country to prominence.
Once again, Obama’s speech set the right tone, we should recognize that this was a once in a lifetime moment that we all shared. He reached across party lines, racial lines and cultural lines and offered a message of hope. His enthusiam was rightly tempered because this is no time to bask in victory, this is time to get the job done. Like he said he can’t do it alone we have to stand with him as a nation and we will get there together.
As President - Elect Obama stated ”this is a defining moment” and “change has come to America“. We must continue to forge ahead in this new direction and follow our words with actions. If we want change to stay in America we all have to be prepared to put our old ways aside and look toward the greater good. We all must realize that this is the UNITED STATES of AMERICA and we must now show the world that our actions are synonymous with our name.

Why Kill Someone You Love?!
Tuesday, November 25th, 2008Last night the demented young man who shot his estranged wife and two other people while in church was arrested in Georgia last night. I am wondering what could have prompted him to commit such a heinous act? What did he hope to accomplish by ending his wife’s life and killing another young man who was just trying to help? He should know that his life was over as becausehe would be caught and tried and possibly excecuted (depending on state law).
To me, he is spineless for commiting this brutal selfish act. If you are so tough stay and face the police and suffer the consequences of your actions. You mean to tell me that he “loved” her so much that he couldn’t bare to see her live her life without him? I think not! This was a purely selfish act that was just based completely on objectifying his wife and having complete control over her life.
I have seen many relationships where the people involved treat each other like unfeeling possessions. Human beings are not like a car or an ipod, or a pair of shoes that you can just do whatever you want to them. I believe that if you can’t get along with someone then leave them alone. Of course it hurts a lot when relationships turn sour and we don’t want to admit that it is over. We want to hang on and see if we can revive the passion and the love that we first felt when we met. Unfortunately, both people have to want to work things out in order for the relationship to have any chance of success.
It is reported that the man’s wife had fled across the country from the relationship because it was abusive but this guy followed her because he just couldn’t let it go. I guess he must have thought he was showing her “love” by beating the hell out of her on a regular basis. I wonder how he would feel if someone was kicking his tail everyday how he would like it? I think that he would look to get out of that situation as fast as possible and thats what his wife did.
So now he decides that she can’t do this to him. He follows her to her place of worship goes inside and guns her down along with two other church members then he flees like the coward that he is. His ultimate expression of his “love” for her was to senselessly murder her.
His actions left he stunned I’m wondering - Why kill someone you love?! How can you begin to justify committing such a horrible crime? The answer is simple you can’t! If you really love someone and they no longer want to be involved with you you have to let her go. You have no right to determine whether she lives or dies because she no longer wants to put up with your garbage!
We all know that love is the one emotion that can be wonderfully invigorating or terribly hurtful depending on the relationship. As hard as it is we have to keep love in perspective - many people have this misconception that love means ownership of the other person. We all must realize that when the love is gone we have to accept it and move on when it doesn’t work.
If you really love someone killing them should never enter your mind ever. This wasn’t about love for this man this was about control. I hope that the judge throws the book at him and gives him the appropriate 200 year life sentence because he doesn’t love he just kills.
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